Valerie J. Botter

Creative solutions for family transitions.

About Valerie Botter

Valerie Botter is an experienced attorney and mediator in divorce, custody, and other family law matters in Massachusetts. Whether the issue is child-related, financial, or interpersonal, Valerie helps her clients reach settlement. Valerie is committed to helping her clients consider their children’s emotional well being and best interests. Valerie brings over 30 years of courtroom and trial experience to her practice.

Valerie is a 1981 graduate of Oberlin College and a 1986 graduate of Northeastern University School of Law. After law school, she served as a law clerk to the Justices of the Massachusetts Superior Court and then joined a premier Boston family law firm. Valerie moved to Western Massachusetts in 1990 and opened her own law and mediation practice shortly thereafter. In 1994, Valerie co-founded Schmidt & Botter, a Northampton law firm. In 1995, Valerie was granted fellowship status in the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML), a national organization of experienced domestic relations practitioners.  In 2001, Valerie returned to solo practice as an attorney and expanded her role as a neutral mediator and conciliator.

Valerie has been a member of the Hampshire County Bar Association since moving to Western Massachusetts in 1990. Valerie is also a member of the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation, the Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council, and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts. Valerie was a co-founder of the Hampshire County Bar Association Conciliation Program, an Alternative Dispute Resolution Program for Hampshire Probate and Family Court that was approved by the Trial Court. Valerie has also served as a steering committee member of the Family Resolutions Specialty Court (FRSC) at Hampshire Probate and Family Court and practices in the FRSC Court. Valerie has been named a Massachusetts Super Lawyer each year since 2010 and has a distinguished status with Martindale-Hubbell as a lwyer with a very high rating in both legal ability and ethical standards. By volunteering with local legal services programs, Valerie provides free legal services for clients who cannot afford an attorney.

Valerie is originally from the New York metropolitan area. Valerie was raised with an appreciation for justice, compassion, and community service. Her father was a trial and appellate court judge in Hackensack, New Jersey and her mother was a social worker. Following her parents’ divorce when Valerie was in second grade, she lived with her mother in Manhattan until tenth grade, when she moved in with her father, step-mother, and step-brothers in northern New Jersey. Valerie understands the complexity of extended family dynamics and the importance of shielding children from parental conflict during separation and beyond.

Valerie has lived in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts since graduating from college in 1981. Valerie is divorced and maintains a good relationship with her ex-husband and his wife. Happily remarried since 2004, Valerie and her husband have a blended family of five children, ages 24 to 33, and three young grandchildren. Valerie is passionate about relationships, design, nature, and kindness.

Email Valerie or call 413-586-8651.